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Memories & regrets

Some things are easy to erase; like words in a document, or a piece of paper that you burn. But haunting memories and lingering regrets are much more stubborn. There are things that happened in the past and no matter how hard you shake your head you can’t undo them and the memory remains. There are regrets; things you knew you could do but didn’t, and things you wish you didn’t do but did. Regret is a stubborn stain, annoying like nails on a chalkboard, infiltrating your memory like a dripping tap. I wish that no one had to live with regrets, but suspect that we ALL do to some extent. Regrets come in all shapes and sizes.  As the playwright Arthur Miller said" Maybe all one can do is hope to end up with the right regrets. Times of major change, health crises and near death experiences are some of the times we tend to reflect on life, realise times in the past when we were neglectful of our priorities and commit to living differently. These are the 5 most common re